Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Squeaky Shoes

For those of you have been to China before, you know of the famed "squeaky shoes". Well Joshua insisted on having his own, and we obliged. Joshua wore them around town all afternoon and loved them.

If you need your own personal set.... let us know :)

Monday, April 7, 2008

Day 10 - US Consulate Physical Exam

Joshua's Exam Day

Today was Joshua's physical exam in support of his entry into the United States. It was a pretty basic exam for the most part. However, our docotor seemed concerned about Joshua's medical history. He read his hospitalization report from July 2007 several times (it states he has congentital heart disease) and checked his heart acouple of times. He then took us to another doctor who did the same thing. The two of them then reported to our guide that they found no problems with Joshua's heart at all. We thank God for this awesome report, and will followup with a pediatric cardiologist in Virginia to ensure he is 100% healed with no further needs. We had a peace in our hearts that he was fine even before we arrived in China. This was reaffirmed as we experienced his daily high energy level, and now the doctors report has been been our third confirmation. God truly has His hand on Joshua's life in a very special way (as He does with each of us) . It will be exciting to see how God uses him in the years ahead.


Joshua & mom outside the exam center after the great news!
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And Now For Some Fun

Both Randy and Joshua have adventurous spirits. They like to explore and expereince new things. Since we are on the 32nd floor of our hotel, we have an excellent view of the city around us. So Randy decided he would try to find a playground for us to take Joshua to. He looked left, he looked right, and then there it was. He found a playground sitting on top of the 6th floor of a hotel 2 blocks away. So we suited up with stroller and child and out we went.....

Joshua climbing the playground stairs.

Joshua (aka - One Shoe) getting ready to go down the slide

Joshua enjoying the adventure

Joshua insisting on wearing his Dad's boots


Joshua trys to share his cheerios with his napping dad.

Like his dad, Joshua can take a nap anywhere and at anytime. Come to think of it, Randy's daughter Elizabeth and his brother Kim are known to have the same skill.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Day 8 & 9 - In Guangzhou

Today (Sunday, April 7) we are in Guangzhou. Yesterday we flew from Chongqing to Guangzhou. We were a bit concerned how Joshua would do on the plane trip. He has been increasingly congested during our time with him, doesn't like to sit confined in one place too long and to our knowledge he has never ridden in an airplane before. On the other hand, we have quickly learned that Joshua loves looking down from high places (40 story buildings, elevators with glass fronts, and esculators) and fast rides. What could have been a stressful plane ride turned out to be an exciting adventure.


Waiting at our gate to board the plane.



Joshua during takeoff.

During take off Joshua alternated between the two windows, placing his face into the glass and loving every minute of it. He repeated this routine until we rose above the clouds and could no longer see land. The routine started again as soon as we decended below the clouds and could begin to see land. Inbetween take off and landing he played happily with books, magazines and toys. What a great experience to have as we look towards the 14 hour flight back home later this week. We at least know he is capable of flying well. :)

We have shared that Joshua has been increasingly congested since recieving him a week ago. Our guide in Guangzhou (Maggie) took us to the local childrens hospital last night. They confirmed that he has an upper respiratory infection and gave us antibiotics. He has begun to get better and we have appreciated everyones prayers. Joshua had severe pneumonia last summer and we did not want to see his health to progress to that stage again. The care at the children's hospital was excellent, and the cost was less than $20 including medicine. Once again God's grace is sufficient for all our needs.

Joshua is down for a nap. Randy is taking the opportunity to do homework for college and Laurie is headed to the gym. Tomorrow starts the paperwork and medical process for Joshua's VISA to America.

Thanks again for your prayers and support!





Friday, April 4, 2008

Day 7 - Chinese Adoption Process Final

Our journey in Chongqing is now complete. All paperwork has been finalized with the Chinese government and the adoption is official. On Saturday we fly to southern China (Guangzhou) to complete our paperwork with the American Consulate.


Our last day in Chongquing was a "free" day. We had no required appointments, no scheduled tours, and were able to just relax a little. The entire country was observing a national holiday, and we witnessed several different types of celebrations in our local area. It was good to experience more of the Chinese culture so we can later share it with Joshua.

A few pictures that reflect some of our experiences in Chongqing:



We toured the Three Gorge Museum. It contains a 3 wall panaramic view of the 3 Gorge Dam project. In an effort to get off of coal produced electricty, China has built a huge dam to capture the waters flowing out of 3 gorges. The water will be used to produce electricity and is estimated to provide over half of the current electricty used today. The down side of the project is that waters will rise an estimated 10 meters and will put large portions of cities/villages underwater. A total of 1.3 million people are being moved out of low lying areas in preparation for the completion of the dam in 2009. Joshua's town of Fuling is in the process of relocating over 50,000 people. His orphanage is on high ground and will not be effected.



While at the museum there was a local artist who paints with his mouth due to having no arms. He is amazingly talented and painted Joshua's name on one of his paintings of Fuling. This will be a great treasure to pass on to Joshua as he grows up. God is able to use each us for great things, no matter what our circumstances are.

Randy, Joshua, and our guide Michael. Michael coordinates most of the adoptions in Chongqing. He has a great heart and has help us emmensely. Those who may be coming to Chongqing for adoption will be blessed to have him as your guide.



The summer Olympics will take place in Beijing. We some of the Olympic village and stadiums while in Beijing. However, it seems each city has it's own way of celebrating their country being the host of the world Olympics. This is a countdown clock in the 7 story mall that is a part of our hotel.

Joshua and his hotel crib. Last night we put his crib in the bathroom and turned the shower on to fill the room with steam. He has been getting congested at night and the steam helped.

We thought we would forego a stroller while in China. Afterall, Chinese babies are very small. Well..... Joshua weighs in at over 30 lbs at age 20 months. Michael said "he is a big boy and you should use a stroller." We took his advice and it has turned out to be a thrill for Joshua too.

Mom getting Joshua ready for another day of adventure

Thursday, April 3, 2008

A Dream - An Untold Story

About 2 months before our travel to pickup Joshua, Laurie had a very vivid dream concerning Joshua. She recorded the dream in her journal, and we have seen it come true. We would like to share the dream with you...

The Dream

On February 5, 2008..... I (Laurie) had a very memorable dream. In the dream, there was a silver metal bridge shaped like a dragon that appeared to be coming down from the sky. The sky was colored in very vivid beautiful sapphire blues. Coming down the inside of the bridge was a dark haired young girl with shoulder length hair (like a nanny) who was holding the hand of a dark-haired little boy. She was leading him down the bridge from the sky to the ground. I was standing nearby the entrance of the bridge (which was the shape of the dragon's mouth). She walked him slowly down the bridge and he patiently came along side her. As I waited at the entrance for him, I looked around and marveled at the little colorful pink and blue shoes etched into the frame of the bridge. The bridge appeared to be covered with these little pink and blue shoes as if many little footsteps had come across this bridge. It felt like a little piece of heaven. I can't begin to describe the joy and delight I felt in my heart.

When I awoke from the dream, I felt in my heart that God had just confirmed that the little boy we were about to receive from China was a gift from His heart. Our little piece of heaven from China.

The Dream Realized

On March 30, 2008 we arrived in Chongqing where we were to meet our baby boy Joshua. Michael, our guide, met us at the airport. We loaded up our luggage and headed to downtown Chongqing to the Harbor Plaza Hotel. Upon arrival at our hotel, to my amazement, there was a bright red ballon hanging over the hotel entrance. There were two dragons crouching on the top of the ballon.


As we pulled up in Michael's car (silver Honda Civic) I gasped as I recalled the dream. Randy nodded and smiled as we retrieved our things from the car to go inside. Once inside, we saw him, our little Joshua. He sat on a small sofa waiting there patiently with two of his young dark-haired nannies with shoulder length hair to greet us. We were both overcome with emotion and awe. There are no words to adequately describe this moment except pure joy and delight. This was our gottcha day, our gottcha moment, our final confirmation of a dream come true.


Joshua being given to Laurie by the nannies (from Fuling orphanage) in the lobby of Harbor Plaza hotel on March 30, 2008.

The next day, I wanted to get a picture of this dragon balloon, but it had been taken down. Yesterday, we shared this dream with our guide Michael. We asked if he could help us find the identical dragon balloon so we could have a picture taken with Joshua. He was very touched by the dream and our request. He drove us around Chongqing until we found the balloons. He took our picture standing beneath the dragon balloons (see below). I asked Michael what the significance of the dragon was in China. He said the dragon is representative of the emperor in China. Michael then affectionately called Joshua "little dragon boy."



We do believe that God has chosen this little one for great and mighty things which is why we named him Joshua. His name means “a deliverer.” The Joshua of the Bible was often told to be strong and courageous, and we see this same spirit alive in little Joshua. While we don’t know the story of his life, we do have the honor and privilege of raising Joshua and being used by God to help create it. God knows the plans he has for all of us…plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Thanks for letting us share this dream with you. We serve an AWESOME God!


Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Day 6 - Trip To Fuling Orphanage

Today was an incredible day. We traveled 2 1/2 hours into the mountians north of Chongqing, to the city of Fuling. Fuling is where Joshua was discovered on a door step, and then raised in the Fuling orphanage. It was both touching and humbling to see the location of his beginnings. Joshua was excellent the whole trip, seemed happy to see some familiar faces, and relieved to leave with us from the orphanage at the end of the day. These photos reflect a few significant events in little Joshua's life.

Road leading to the Fuling orphanage. Joshua's mother taveled this road to place him outside the orphanage walls. The doctors estimate he was 3-5 weeks old when abandoned. Joshua spent the first several months of his life in the orphange, and then transitioned to living with a foster parent across the street.

This is the main gate to Fuling orphanage. Joshua often traveled through these gates to go play at the orphanage even while living with his foster parents.



The door step Joshua was found on at Fuling in July 2006

This is looking from the inner courtyard to the front door of the orphanage. The facility holds up to 60 babies at any one time. The facility also houses the ederly on adjacent floors.



This is the "first hugs" nursery where new arrivals are kept. Today there were approximately 20 babies in "first hugs". Joshua lived in this room for the first several months of his life.


Laurie and Joshua standing next to the crib that was assigned to Joshua.



This the orphanage play room. Joshua used this facility routinely while living at the orphanage and also while living across the street in foster care.



Mom, Dad and Joshua at a mountain view point after leaving the orphanage. Unfortunately the smog in the city made it nearly impossible to see the surrounding mountains. China has come a long ways in their industrial revolution, but has a serious pollution issue yet to resolve. We ended our visit in Fuling by having a traditional Fuling Chinese meal at a local facility. Fuling is famous in China for it's pickles, and we were able to sample those as well. Appears to be a type of squash that is pickled and served in many different dishes. It was acually very good.

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Day 5 - Ups & Down

Today was another wonderful day with Joshua. It was wonderful not because of laughter, giggles and smiles, but becuase we were tested as parents and rose to the occassion. It appears that Joshua is begining to grieve those he has left. Our guide has shared that Joshua was cared for in a foster home. He has been full of laughter and giggles since recieving him, but we had our first melt down today. On the way to the Chinese WalMart he began crying and could not be consoled for 30-40 minutes straight. The remainder of the afternoon he was purposely testing his boundaries to see how much he could get away with, and carefully observing our response. His mood remained reserved and sometime combatant as the afternoon moved into evening. We stayed on program with him and by early evening he was laughing and crawling on the floor with his Dad, playing polar bear races, trucks, bouncing ball and hide-n-seek. The evening ended with Laurie giving Joshua his first bath in the bath tub, Joshua finding out that he loves baths, and then saying prayers before going to sleep. Indeed, God's grace is sufficient for all our needs.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Day 4 - Chinese Paperwork

Today was day #2 of being with Joshua. He continues to show himself to be very fun loving, free spirited, and yet very sensitive. The morning was spent completing adoption paperwork with the Chinese government. By Thursday the adoption will be complete in the eyes of China officials.

We also got to speak with the Nannies concerning Joshua. They shared that Joshua was actually abandoned at 5 weeks old and left on the doorstep of the orphanage. We had thought he was abandoned in the hospital at age one, but the Nannies stated his hospitalization was after 1 year at the Orphanage. They also gave us a copy of the newspaper add that was run in an attempt to find his parents when he was first abandoned

Joshua is very intelligent and is learning things very quicky. Today he has spent alot of one-on-one time with Laurie and is bonding very well. We wanted to make sure her relationship was a priority as she will be the primary care giver when we return home and Randy goes back to work. Joshua wouldn't let Laurie out of his sights all day,


Sunday, March 30, 2008

Day 3 - Gotcha Day




Gotta love the smiles & laughter. God is very very good!!

We flew into Chongqing at about 7PM and were taken by our guide directly to our hotel. As we walked into the lobby, Joshua was sitting on the sofa with two Nanny's. He readily came into Laurie's arms and was full of giggles and energy. He insisted on playing with Randy too and everyone was surprised at how smooth he handled things. He loves to smile, giggle, play and be "on the move". Everyone in the lobby was taken in by his fun loving spirit.

After we signed some preliminary papers, Joshua waved goodbye to the Nanny's and the Bell Boy escorted us to our room. The rest of the evening was spent playing, laughing, and Mom & Dad wondering if Joshua would ever run out of energy :). So far no tears and just a sweet playful spirit. We understand most newly adopted children go through a grieving period during their initial adjustment. So we stand ready for that too, but day 1 was an awesome gift in every way.

Tomorrow we begin the China adoption paperwork process. We are told we must move quickly as Friday is a national holiday. By the end of the week China will have finalized the adoption and next week we will head to the US Consulate for the VISA process. Our guide has said he also wants to take us to the Fuling Orphanage (2-3 hours away) this week and we are waiting to hear when that might be. It will be great to visit the orphanage that cared for Joshua, learn more of his history, and see some of his friends.

Having some camera issues (bad download cable). Hope to resolve tomorrow at one of the local stores. Have a couple still photos we downloaded from our video camera. A little grainy but will do for tonight.

Thanks again for your prayers and support.

Randy & Laurie


Saturday, March 29, 2008

Day 2 - In China - The Great Wall & More


Today was a day of touring and getting to know the history and culture of China a little bit more. We toured the massive Forbidden City and the Great China Wall. Beijing was overcast and chilly, and the Great Wall was cold and snow covered. We could only climb part of the wall due to ice and snow, but it was a lot of fun and a spectacular sight. The kids in our group were also able to get in a snowball fight.
The Chinese are a proud yet humble and gracious people. Everyone has been extremely friendly, and go out of their way to help us. We had a lesson on the "one child" law and the implications of the same. China has about 3 times the population of the U.S. and has used the law as a means to gain control of the situation. Allowing adoptions is one part of caring for the Chinese people. It has been reiterated many times, that the children we adopt will always be sons and daughters of China. We are taking precious treasure of China home with us, and to please care for the little ones as such. Of course, our attitude is the same.
Sunday morning willl be another several hours of touring. In the afternoon we fly to Chongqing. By 9PM we should be connected with Joshua. The excitement builds :)

Friday, March 28, 2008

Day 1 in China


Thanks to Angela Upton who took us to the airport at 4am (what an excellent heart). Thanks also to all those who have been praying for us and assisting us over the past many months. You are all warriors and we are forever grateful to you.

We had a wonderful flight to China today. It took 13 hours, routed us over the north pole (see the polar bear), and was daylight all the way. This was the longest flight Laurie had been on and reminded Randy of some of his earlier jaunts in his naval career. It was exciting to get an aerial view of many of the places we would love to explore.

We were the only members of our adoption group on the plane. We met many wonderful people and were welcomed warmly by the Chinese staff at the airport and hotel. Our AWAA adoption guides in Beijing are Maggie and Rosa. They are both awesome and are taking great care of us. We had an authentic Chinese dinner and are headed to bed. Tomorrow is a full day of touring Beijing and the Great Wall. We do another tour Sunday morning and then fly to Joshua's providence in the afternoon.
Thanks again for your prayers & support!

Monday, March 24, 2008

China Itinerary

We will arrive in Beijing on March 27
Travel to Chongquing March 30
Pick-up Joshua (Gotcha Day) on March 30
Fly to Guangzhou on April 4
Finalize the Adoption on April 9
Fly to Chicago April 11
Arrive home April 12
We are excited and ready to go !!

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Joshua at Fuling (Summer 2007)

Joshua at Fuling in August 2007.
This was within a month of his release from the hospital.
Looking energetic and ready for action.

Joshua's Birthday

Joshua was born on July 21st, 2006.
In July 2007 he suffered severe pneumonia and was hospitalized for several weeks. It appears that he was abandoned while in the hospital and later placed into the Fuling childcare system.

Hearts For Adoption


We have had a heart for adoption even before our wedding.
Our official journey to adoption began in December 2005.
We assumed we would be adopting a precious little girl.
However, God gave us a wonderful surprise in the gift of a precious little boy.